Father and Son meet themselves Grown-Up
Differently than in other videos on this site, this one does not deal with the consequences of the father absence, but tries to investigate its grounds.
A Father and his Child are often apart (separated) and even when not "physically apart", due to a divorce or to other reasons, they are separated in their look, affection, in their relationship. Their mind distance is preamble to a "final" physical separation. Many fathers don't make or complete the education of their children because they had not been educated and grown up emotionally, ethically, rationally by their own fathers too.
The father absence is a "wide phenomenon" and it has historical roots in the last century, a century comprising terrible wars and degradating working conditions, places very far from home and family, places where millions of men and fathers died (25 million military only during the II world war) or they got often shocked, wounded, made unable to continue their life and to play their social role with dignity.
A long "non-chain", consisting of missing links. Such chain has to be rebuilt today by the alive and healthy people, because in such "connection" (roots, past, ancestors) there are important seeds for future life and happiness.
What to do? - To "look at" the own father with new and adult eyes. If he died, it's however possible to unterstand him by imagination, memories and through the people left by him in the world. Many things will be discovered, such as (very often) that our father loved us, but he didn't know how to show it, and he closed himself off (his soul), loosing the opportunity and the joy of growing up his children.
Happy end is not guaranteed, but Life of a child "honestly meeting" the father changes: rage and grudges cool off, an healthy "internal father" is built; the internal father will be a guide for the future, in order to become better fathers, like our father would have wanted, although he didn't tell us.
Listen to their dialogue..
Male Initiation, To Become Men
Society doesn't shape Men anymore, society doesn't like Men anymore. Even if you become man it will be hard to integrate.
How to survive? How to feed yourself?
Man is the creatore of the future, while others grope in the dark He enlighten the way alone. The conversion of solitude to personal development will be your keystone.
Go to Nature, look for examples inside books and people. Your "masculine Energy" is the most important thing you own, do not waste it toward useless people.
The Energy is inside your subconsciuos, to bring it to light you need to do a "transition" creating a Belief inside you: in Ancestors, in Fathers, in the Male Culture shaping world since immemorial past.
When one has not had a good father, one must create one, Nietzsche said, a Wiseman "initiating" you to the strength and direction you have inside.
You'll become calm, forwardlooking, an example for boys who want to become men. Your words will be stone and sword, your thoughts galaxies of knowledge, emptiness will become fullness, weakness will become power.
Male history is an eternal history..
We can be part of it, go through Time, be part of the noble destiny, or karma, as genuine Men and Fathers.
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